As a baby boomer, Denise and millions of others are becoming senior citizens. She explores what it means to be over 60 today.
I know the word homemaker has gotten a bad reputation. It elicits images of Donna Reed or June Cleaver (the mother on Leave It to Beaver) doing housework in high heels and pearls, never thinking of pursuing any kind of career outside the home. Or perhaps it more represents the image of being chained to the stove and never leaving the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant, and all the rest of the negative stereotypes that have floated around in the past century.
Actually, a homemaker is a person (male or female) who embraces the many creative things that enhance the home and the people living there. It ranges from decorating, arranging flowers, making beds with all the pillows and decor that make the bedroom inviting, sewing clothing, creating recipes, dinners, desserts, and meals that excite the pallet and nourish the body, as well as cleaning up afterward. It covers being able to prepare and plan for the future by preserving food and keeping the pantry well-stocked.
Many homemakers also grow their own fruit and vegetables as well as herbs for cooking. Homemakers are often more than the chief cook and bottle washer but also a mom or dad taking care of youngers. That’s a whole job in itself. After I read The Good Earth by Pearl Buck, I decided that a good homemaker may not be making money but saving money for the breadwinner. Saving money is almost as important as making it, in my opinion. A good homemaker doesn’t throw away a used item but fixes it, recycles it, or reuses it for something else.
“After all, a woman didn't leave much behind in the world to show she'd been there. Even the children she bore and raised got their father's name. But her quilts, now that was something she could pass on.”
— Sandra Dallas, author of "A Quilt for Christmas: A Novel"
Sew (and Mend) Your Own Clothes
You don’t need expensive sewing machines to sew your own garments or mend existing ones. A needle and thread are all that is needed. Still, a good sewing machine will save many hours of work if you can get one.
I sewed my clothes and my children’s clothes for decades, saving thousands of dollars in so doing. I usually got the fabric half price as remnants (that’s the end of the bolt of fabric, usually only a couple of yards or less) or close-out fabric. I got many of the patterns from thrift stores and even inherited a few from my mother (patterns from the 1950s and ‘60s). I learned to design clothes using the collar from one pattern, the body from another, and the sleeves from another. All fashion is actually done that way. Is there really anything new under the sun? I doubt it.
Shop at Thrift Stores
You can find some great buys at yard sales and thrift stores, but you can also get sucked into buying what you don’t really need. Beware. The problem here is that we women often have a bad habit of buying what we don’t need just because it is a bargain.
I can find some great clothes for myself at thrift stores and yard sales that just need a little mending or a little fixing. One recent buy I found, had a low neckline. All I had to do was to make a tuck in the back of the neck with just a few stitches and it was perfect.
You don’t want to fill up your garage after going to all the trouble of clearing it out with your own yard sales. So be strong. If you are going to a yard sale for a specific item, be sure to only get what you absolutely need: fabric, sewing machine, patterns, etc. Yard sales can be a great resource or a total waste of time. Pick and choose carefully.
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"We humans have become dependent on plastic for a range of uses, from packaging to products. Reducing our use of plastic bags is an easy place to start getting our addiction under control."
— David Suzuki, science broadcaster and environmental activist
Re-Use Plastic and Cardboard in Your Home
Have you ever heard of ecobricks? There is a webpage dedicated to them. In order to save the planet of all the debris and plastic filling up landfills, ecobricks are something you can do yourself one little bottle at a time.
It’s just so hard to get away from plastic these days. Everything comes in plastic.
Choose a plastic bottle that you are buying often. Clean it and dry it completely then begin filling it with all the soft plastic that goes through your home. Paper towels are wrapped in plastic, toilet paper, napkins, paper plates, baggies, candy, electronics, etc., all come with plastic. The point is to take that plastic and instead of throwing it away, stuff it into the bottle using a wooden dowel or the end of a wooden spoon. You pack it as firm as possible and then put it on the lid. These can be used for building materials or you can use them in your home as step stools, planter tables, or whatever you like. You have the pleasure of knowing you have saved the planet one small piece at a time.
I have also used cardboard packaging for spice shelves and sliding trays for canned goods in my pantry. I have been making bowls out of the newsprint grocery store circulars that come in the mail every week. These bowls make some nice gifts as well.
Brew Your Own Mead
Among the many creative things I have learned to make and bake over the years to please my partner, is honey mead. Mead is a lightly brewed wine that used to be given to newly married couples in the Middle Ages as a celebration of their nuptials. Perhaps it has been replaced with Champagne today, but mead is still a sweet mild wine that anyone can make. All you need is honey, lemon, a dash of nutmeg, and some clean bottles. The following is my recipe:
Honey Mead Recipe
- In a 6-quart pan add 1 gallon of filtered water, 1 pint of honey, a dash of nutmeg or 5 whole nutmegs, the meat of 2 large lemons along with 1 lemon peel.
- Boil for about 30 minutes until the foam no longer is rising. Skim off the foam and set the pan aside to cool overnight or for about 24 hours without a lid. This means it is utilizing the bacteria in the air for its yeast. No need to add culture or yeast to it.
- Squeeze the juice of 2 more large lemons into the pot, stir, strain, and bottle the mead in freshly washed screw-top bottles.
I used to use the beer bottles with the pop-tops and the mead would shoot straight up when opened. The screw-top bottles allow you to release a little gas slowly and prevent projectile mead. Label your bottles and set them aside in a cool dark place to ferment for two weeks to one month. Refrigerate before opening and enjoy!
“It is better to dwell on the beautiful things in life than the negative.”
— Lailah Gifty Akita, author of "Think Great, Be Great! Beautiful Quotes"
Do you think homemaking is a lost art? Do you think it is an unnecessary menial job? Do you value the homemaker’s arts? I’d love to read your thoughts and suggestions in the comments below.